I was talking to a friend recently who shared how wow and omg it was that her parents had gone to the funeral home and teed up their death management plans and paid for it and had stipulated they def did not want an obituary or a service, which all was so celebratory and curious and sad all at once. I say this is a gift in every way, and more people… all people… should be more like my friend’s very thoughtful, generous and planful parents. #grandplans