In my last post, I opined on talking about ourselves too much in conversation and the importance of asking questions and reducing the “well Is” from our engagements with others. This is a crucial consideration because forming close relationships with others is a key input to thriving during our second half. Today, I want to talk about a nonprofit that’s pushing this important agenda and doing so successfully through programming that connects isolated older adults through meaningful conversations. This New York City-based nonprofit is called Life Story Club, and I would like very much to bring this initiative to Jacksonville FL.

The better word is DETERMINED to bring it to Jacksonville FL. In fact, let me rephrase altogether by saying for the past few months, I have been part of a pilot group of folks from around the country who are working to do the same for their communities. We have been meeting monthly to discuss the hows and wheres and whats and sharing progress and I would love nothing more than to see something happen in Duuuuuuuval in 2026!

Here’s what Life Story Club is all about and why it would be so incredibly impactful to have clubs in Northeast Florida:

According to their website, Life Story Club hosts Virtual Storytelling Communities, “weekly virtual social clubs for older adults over the phone or Zoom. Each meeting is guided by a trained facilitator who provides thoughtful prompts that inspire members to reflect, share, and connect through personal life experiences. This provides: Consistent weekly connection, Offered in Spanish, Mandarin, Cantonese, and English, Easy access by phone or video , Small, supportive groups led by expert facilitators.” Here’s a recent story about the program:

For seniors dealing with social isolation, NYC programs provide intergenerational events – CBS New York

And another one!

How an Anti-Loneliness Club Is Helping NYC Seniors Feel Seen Again

Life Story Club also offers other programs, but the virtual and hybrid clubs are for what it’s most known and in my opinion, where it’s making the most difference. Basically, it helps connect isolated older adults so they can build relationships and build a network of support. This is so important, and as I saw firsthand, essential to the older adults participating. I observed one club meeting virtually, and these folks freely shared very personal stories. Their affinity for each other was obvious and so endearing. The particular club I sat in on had been meeting virtually, and on occasion in-person, each week for YEARS. They may all be isolated or living alone, but Life Story Club helped them build lifegiving community. It was inspiring. Truly.

The facilitators play a key role in these conversations because they are trained in asking the questions that let each participant go deeper. These club meetings aren’t blab-fests, they are respectful, well-managed forums for sharing that bring people closer. Good facilitator questions are the key. There are no opportunities for the “well Is” in these groups. Everyone gets their turn and as a result, people listen, engage and ultimately, create deep connections that enrich their lives.

As we move into 2026, look out for opportunities to get involved with local programming. Or maybe you live in another community that could benefit from these conversations. Reach out to them! Sharing, listening and building relationships creates community which fortifies our collective healthy aging and in turn, strengthens our community. More of this, please! Let’s keep the conversation going.